Meet Robert Fitzgerald, LMFT
My goal is to build a collaborative, therapeutic relationship.
Achieve your goals & live with greater happiness, fulfillment, and peace.
I believe that you are the expert on your life.
I can offer a nonjudgmental presence, empathy, and positivity.
I aim to create a safe place & accompany you in exploring difficult emotions, past traumas, & stressors.
No matter what is coming up, you can bring it here.
Still point:
A peace which is not indifference or emotional resignation; it is the living reality of the present. This dynamic stillness is where our consciousness becomes loving-kindness and equanimity.
From the teachings of Jack Kornfeld
Make life hurt less.
Therapy can help when times are tough. Nobody wants to change when things are feeling great. Having an understanding therapist can help.
I integrate a variety of modalities, catered to individual clients. Using a combination of mindfulness, CBT, DBT, and exposure therapy, catering to your needs.

Providing online therapy for people all over California
Our Services
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Individual Counseling
Weekly individual counseling are 50 minutes per session
$200
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Couples Therapy
I counsel couples across the lifespan. These sessions are one hour long
$250
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Family Therapy
I work with adolescents and their families, siblings or partial families, as well as the whole family: "family-as-the-client". These sessions are 1 hour long
$250
I do offer a sliding scale for people who cannot afford my full fee. Please reach out to me and let me know you need this. Please be prepared to answer several questions about your income, your household income, and major payments or debts.
Sliding Scale
My Approaches
Mindfulness
Mindfulness is the practice of maintaining an open, non-judgmental awareness of the present moment. It involves observing thoughts, feelings, and bodily sensations without trying to change or interpret them. By cultivating mindfulness, individuals can enhance their emotional resilience and overall well-being.
Meditation helps reduce stress and anxiety by promoting relaxation and mindfulness. It also enhances emotional well-being and improves focus, allowing individuals to cultivate a greater sense of clarity and presence in their daily lives.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying and changing negative thought patterns and behaviors. It is a structured, goal-oriented approach that helps individuals develop healthier coping strategies. CBT is effective for various mental health issues, including anxiety and depression.
CBT helps individuals identify and change negative thought patterns and behaviors that contribute to emotional distress. It is effective in treating a variety of issues, including anxiety, depression, and stress-related disorders.
Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) is a structured form of cognitive-behavioral therapy that emphasizes the development of skills in mindfulness, emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal effectiveness. Originally designed for individuals with borderline personality disorder, DBT has proven effective for a variety of mental health issues, including depression and anxiety. The therapy balances acceptance and change, encouraging individuals to accept their emotions while also working towards meaningful change in their lives.
Issues I Treat
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Anxiety & Stress
Anxiety and stress can manifest as a persistent feeling of unease, often accompanied by rapid heart rate and shallow breathing. Individuals may experience muscle tension and a sense of dread or impending doom, making it difficult to focus on daily tasks. Restlessness and irritability often arise, leading to difficulty in relaxing or sleeping. Overall, these feelings can create a heavy burden that impacts emotional and physical well-being.
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Depression
Depression is a complex mental health condition that affects individuals in various ways. Symptoms include persistent sadness, loss of interest in activities, appetite or weight changes, sleep disturbances, fatigue, difficulty concentrating, feelings of worthlessness, and thoughts of death. Recognizing these signs is essential for seeking support and treatment, allowing for effective coping strategies and professional help.
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Men's Issues
Men encounter numerous challenges impacting their mental health and well-being, including identity issues, societal pressures, and emotional expression difficulties. Many face struggles in balancing work and family life, along with career-related stress and relationship/parenting challenges. Common relationship problems include communication and intimacy issues.
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ADHD
ADHD, or Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder, is a neurodevelopmental disorder marked by inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity that disrupt functioning and development. Individuals may have difficulty focusing, following instructions, and managing impulses, resulting in challenges in academic, professional, and social settings. Symptoms vary, but ADHD is often managed with behavioral therapies, educational support, and medication when necessary.
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Personal Growth
Therapy for personal growth provides a supportive environment to explore and understand oneself more deeply. It offers tools and insights that facilitate self-reflection, helping individuals identify patterns and behaviors that may hinder their progress. Ultimately, engaging in therapy can empower individuals to set meaningful goals and cultivate a more fulfilling life.
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Substance Use
Substance use disorder (SUD) is a complex condition characterized by an individual's inability to control their use of drugs or alcohol, despite the negative consequences it may bring. This disorder often leads to significant impairment in various aspects of life, including personal relationships, work, and health. Treatment typically involves a combination of therapy, support groups, and, in some cases, medication to help individuals manage their condition and work towards recovery.
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Life Transitions
We all have significant changes or shifts in our life circumstances, which can impact emotional and psychological well-being. These transitions can be planned, such as graduating from school, starting a new job, or becoming a parent, or they can be unexpected, like a divorce, job loss, or the death of a loved one. Navigating life transitions often involves a period of adjustment as individuals reassess their goals, identities, and relationships.
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OCD
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a mental health condition marked by intrusive thoughts (obsessions) and repetitive behaviors (compulsions). These obsessions cause significant anxiety, and compulsions provide only temporary relief, creating a challenging cycle. People with OCD may obsess over contamination, harming others, or symmetry. This disorder can disrupt daily life and routine activities. It’s essential to recognize that OCD is more than a desire for tidiness; it is a complex condition that needs compassion and appropriate treatment.
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Relationship Issues
Relationship issues can impact connections with partners, family, friends, and colleagues, including trust issues, communication breakdowns, and differing expectations. These challenges can lead to frustration, sadness, and isolation. Therapy helps understand underlying dynamics, fosters healthier interactions, and enhances emotional well-being by providing tools to navigate difficulties and strengthen bonds.
Paying for therapy
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In order to schedule your intake appointment, a card will need to be placed on file.
You can use a debit or credit card. These can also be HSA (Health Savings Accounts) or FSA (Flexible Spending Account) cards.
HSA & FSA cards are not supposed to be used for missed appointments.
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If you do not give notice of missing an appointment 2 business days prior to your appointment, you will be charged the full fee for your appointment.
There are no "freebies", so even the first missed appointment will be charged.
If you'd like to move your appointment instead, you are welcome to email me for additional available slots!
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I am not paneled with any insurance companies at this time. This means you will have to pay up front for therapy services. At the end of each month, I will give you a superbill. These are receipts of sessions paid for. You submit these to insurance to be reimbursed.
This process takes time and effort and sometimes you have to follow up if the insurance company denies the claim for some reason. You also have the option of using a third party service to do this work for you. Reimbursify is a service that charges a few dollars to do this labor for you.
If you have out-of-network benefits, you may seek reimbursement if you wish. I do this by providing you with a “superbill”. This is a monthly receipt that shows what services you received and the amount you’ve already spent. Clients submit claims for reimbursement with your insurance company. The process for claim submission is different for each plan. Please contact your insurance to find out how you can submit superbills (as opposed to single session claims). You do this by calling the number on the back of your insurance card.
State insurance, otherwise known as Medicaid, does not reimburse for out of network behavioral health services.
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Call the number on the back of your card. Here are some helpful questions to ask your insurance provider:
Do I have behavioral/mental health coverage under my plan?
How many outpatient psychotherapy sessions am I allotted in my plan?
Do I have out-of-network benefits for behavioral health on my plan?
(If yes,) Do I have a deductible?
(If yes,) What part of that deductible have I met so far (if at any)?
What is my co-pay/co-insurance for out-of-network behavioral health visits?
How do I submit “Superbills” for reimbursement?
Are there any limitations, requirements, or restrictions in accessing my plan?
Am I limited to a dollar amount per year that will be covered?
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New federal laws help protect people from surprise medical bills with a Good Faith Estimate.
Multiply your weekly therapy cost by 48 (the amount of weeks I work in the year) and you will arrive at your annual estimated therapy cost.The No Surprises act which is a part of the consolidated Appropriations Act of 2021, is designed to protect clients from receiving unexpected medical bills.
The "Good Faith Estimate” is to give an idea of what you'll be charged with, prior to begin services.
My Education & Training
2003 | BA, English, UCLA
2016 | MA, Marriage & Family Therapy, Alliant International University
Trainings
Gottman Level 1 & 2 Training
Mindfulness-based Cognitive Therapy